It's official - Andrea and Felipe are ours!!

As of today, "La Familia Smith" is a forever family of four!!

Jeff left early this morning to sign the “Sentencia” (the final decree) in Chiquinquirá saying the kids are ours. When he got back to Bogotá in the afternoon, the kids and I met him at the passport office – well, near it – to have their photos taken and then get their new Colombian passports with their new last names. From there, we went to the doctor to have them checked out and get their documents for the Embassy. Tomorrow morning (Weds) at 9:00 AM, we four go to the Embassy to apply for their visas to come to the US. I believe we pick up their visas on Thursday and it could be that we could fly toward home on Friday!!!! (I say “toward” because we will spend the night in Atlanta and actually get home on Satuday, if everything works out.)

We had another tough night last night. It started out sort of ok – a tickling session and lots of laughing, but of course, when it was time to try to stop things and get them into bed, it turned into a battle. Everyone in tears – everyone saying “I’m sorry” – everyone feeling bad. There was, however, a moment of hope. Andrea went into the bathroom and didn’t come out for a bit, and when we finally got her to come out, she revealed a little bit more about their previous situation. I think she’s really been fearful that we might not really want them, but we told her we wanted to be the “final” parents for them. We asked if she wanted to be in our family and she said yes, and then she helped Felipe with the same question and he also said yes. Until that moment, I think we were both struggling with whether they really wanted this to happen or not.

Again today, during our running around, she was very distant and it was obvious that she was struggling with the reality of all the changes coming her way. We were concerned, but tried to give her a little space as we went through the appointments. She kept saying her name was “Andrea (her birth surname)" – but again, we didn’t push it. Then a short while after we got back here, it was like someone flipped a switch and suddenly she was saying her name was “Andrea Smith”! :-) I think it just took her a little while to process that it really had happened and we didn’t leave them. This evening I asked her “todo bien?” (everything ok?) and she said yes, but also said she was “poco triste” (a little sad) and I told her I understood that (she is leaving a lot behind, after all). She was playing some games on the computer and wanted me to sit right beside her and play too – a definite first. Now, of course, a few minutes ago when I said her time was up and I needed to use the computer she acted mad and unhappy, but I’m hoping it’s just the drama gene in her and it won’t ruin the evening – we’ll see. (I think there’s an Oscar in her future, that’s for sure!!) ;-)

So, it’s official – we are “La Familia Smith” forever now. Pretty amazing to think about! (And my DAUGHTER just came and asked me nicely for some ice cream, so I guess the evening isn’t shot yet, thankfully.) It looks like we have a busy couple of days ahead of us and then we can finally bring our whole family HOME!!! I’m not naïve enough to think that all the hard stuff is behind us, but I hope we can at least get off to a good start.

Thanks so much for praying for us these three weeks. We have needed every one. Please don’t stop yet, and especially pray for the kids the next few days as we finish things up here. For now, I’d better close since we have to get up early and it takes a while to get everyone moving toward bed.

Much love to you all and thanks for your support. Looks like I’ll be seeing you soon. (I’ll let you know for sure when we have our travel rearranged.)